January

This is what i felt like Middle of January

Nothing really Happened to fun this last month so this might be a boring post! A lot of things happened but nothing to fun lol! I dealt with a lot of weird situations this last month! I have been dating a lot lately and man I don't know how people do it! I've come a-crossed some people and situations that i didn't think really happened. I went out on a date with a guy and how a lot of fun the next day I got told by him that he thinks we have different interests in life and that we should go our separate ways. After trying to figure out if he was serious or not I was told that if i wanted to change he would be interested in me! To say the least i gave him a little piece of my mind and the next day i woke up to apologizes right and left of text messages, voice mails and flowers! I will admit that he did know how to say sorry so I forgave him and told him that I hoped he learned his lesson that no one deserves to be treated or judged like that!

2 days later I got a phone call from someone that I had gone out with once 4 days prior to the phone call. Remember this was the first time we went out. He called around 8 p.m. and I was in a class so I was unable to answer. Then I was busy after my class and was unable to call him back. By midnight I started getting text messages asking if he had offended me? I asked why? And he replied with how "when we first went out I was responsive and now I'm not cause i didn't call him back, and he wanted to know what I was thinking?" I was kind of blown away with that comment cause I was thinking that we went on one date and that's all i was thinking. He then continued after i didn't reply with a phone call and 3 more text messages. I then woke up the next morning to 4 text messages from him stating that "he was patient with me last night and this is the consequences for my lying, rude, immature, inconsiderate, and bratty behavior, That when he first met me he thought i was cute but possibly bratty and my behavior com firmed his original suspicions that I am a privileged, gossiping, spoiled brat who was to immature to communicate like an adult." Ha Ha I seriously could not believe this was happening. I kept thinking that this type of thing doesn't happen. But Apparently it does. I once again told him a little piece of my mind and ask him to never contact me again. I did not believe my eyes when he continued with another nine text messages telling me I needed to explain myself to him on why i didn't answer or call him back. By this point I was starting to get scared cause he wasn't leaving me alone! So I kindly asked him to again leave me alone. After another 8 text messages telling me that i am self absorbed etc I kindly asked him one more time to leave me alone! He texted his final text message with this statement "Ok I rest my case." Ha as if you had one, Crazy we went on one DATE! (there are a lot of funny things about this date and text messages he sent me but it was to long to write about so if you want to know you must ask cause it is hilarious)

So that sums up my month of dating! HaHa There are some crazies out there so those who don't have to date anymore be extremely happy and love your husbands/boyfriends with everything you have!!! And t those that are dating! WATCH OUT!

I'm one that always has to see the good in things so the good about these situations is I learned that I am really good with words and that you really can't trust just anybody. 2nd I learned again which I seem to be learning this a lot lately that I am MUCH STRONGER THEN I THINK I AM!!! I wasn't about to let someone else's opinion or words affect me. I spent way to much of my Jr./high school years letting peoples words and opinions define who I was and I've worked to hard to get over it to have someone that really doesn't know me set me back!

On a up side I'm having so much fun hanging out and dating the ones that aren't crazy! I also decided that this year is about me so I am doing things I've always wanted to but been to scared or didn't make it a priority. SO in February I start SALSA CLASSES!!! I can't wait I've always wanted to but never dared to! Ill keep you up dated!!!